We know that men have sex with men for many reasons and under many circumstances. Gay men’s primary sexual and romantic relationships are with other men. Some men identify as bisexual or pansexual. Other men may exclusively be in romantic relationships with women while also having sexual experiences with men. Regardless of the social labels, …
Continue ReadingGay Sexual Medicine
I am often surprised when I am asked if we offer Gay Sexual Medicine (as if who a person has sex with determines sexual function). The short answer is “Yes,” but then I am really uncomfortable with that answer too! We work in Sexual Medicine – Period. Gay, bi, straight, pansexual, asexual, omnisexual, whatever – …
Continue ReadingPride: It’s About Dignity
At first glance, the LGBTQIA+ Pride celebrations that mark each June appear to be about vanity. While the rainbow flags and feather boas fly, the essence of pride lies a little deeper below the surface. Pride is about dignity. People of gender and sexual minorities need to continue amplifying their voices to obtain the same …
Continue ReadingBottoming: Positioned for Success
Remember this: The bottom is in control no matter what the fantasy is or looks like. Any sex position, where the bottom is on top, gives the bottom more control over the speed and angle of penetration. The most logical position that promotes easy insertion and best chance at early success is the Reverse Cowboy. …
Continue ReadingBottoming: Getting to Know Your Bodily Functions
It is impossible to meaningly discuss bottoming without addressing the elephant in the room. That elephant is feces. If you are somehow too squeamish or offended by the subject then “Good luck to you and it is now time for you to leave.” For anyone interested in learning more, please read on. Getting to know …
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